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Really Investing in Your Team Isn’t Optional — It’s the Work

Russel Lolacher Episode 346

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Putting time on a calendar isn’t investment. Sending a survey isn’t support.

In this solo episode, Russel Lolacher challenges leaders to stop assuming and start asking: What does meaningful investment actually look like for my team?

Because if they don’t feel it — it doesn’t count.

Curiosity. Consistency. Personalization.

That’s the work. 

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Welcome back to Relationships At Work – A leadership podcast helping you build workplace connection, improve culture, and avoid blind spots. I’m your host Russel Lolacher

I’m a communications and leadership nerd with a couple of decades of experience and a heap of curiosity on how we can make the workplace better.

This mini-episode is a quick and valuable bit of information to help your mindset for the week ahead.

Inspired by our R@W Note Newsletter, I’m passing on to you…

Investing in Your Team Isn’t Optional — It’s the Work

I know we mean well but we can't keep pretending that putting time on a calendar, sending a survey, or offering a vague "development opportunity" counts as meaningful investment in our teams.

We're busy. But we want to do better for our teams. The thing is...

If we want to call it “support,” our team has to feel it.
If we want to call it “investment,” it has to matter to them.

So here’s the question every leader should be asking:

How can I invest in my team in a way that is meaningful for them?

Because if we’re not asking that — we’re leading from assumption or leading through a checkbox. Not with awareness and not with compassion.
And that’s how teams disengage, check out, and eventually walk away.

We like to believe that intention is enough. That caring about our team in theory earns us credit in reality.

Sorry. It doesn’t.

Leadership isn’t about how we feel — it’s about how we make others feel. And if our idea of investment is generic, surface-level, or sporadic, don’t be surprised when our team stops showing up with energy or trust.

We need to be sure. We need to know it counts personally for them.

Real investment is:

  • Built on curiosity.We ask more than we assume.
  • Consistent, not convenient.It's not when it fits our schedule. It's part of our job.
  • Tied to who they are.We understand their goals, their challenges, and what they value — then align our support with that.

To our team, meaningful investment feels like:

  • Being seenas more than a task machine.
  • Having a futurethat isn’t just lip service.
  • Knowing their voice matters— even when it’s inconvenient.

Imagine what that does to motivation. To retention. To loyalty. When someone feels genuinely supported, they don’t just perform — they belong.

Examples of investment - personalized development plans, regular and purposeful one-on-ones, promote and recognize the team's work in meetings, actively finding opportunities and stretch assignments to help them grow, involving them in meaningful decisions, helping them define their own success and more.

When we invest in our people in ways that matter to them:

  • We get ahead of problems instead of cleaning up after them.
  • We build trust that outlasts hard conversations.
  • We create a team that owns their work — not just executes it.

And maybe most importantly: We become a better leader — because we're not leading from ego, we’re leading from awareness and care.

The Question: How can I invest in my team in a way that is meaningful for them?

The Action(s):

  • Have the conversation.
    Don’t guess. Ask your team: “What does support look like for you right now?” Listen. Adjust. Repeat.
  • Customize our leadership.
    One-size-fits-all is convenient for us but not meaningful for them. One team member might want mentorship. Another wants autonomy. Another wants visibility. Don’t treat them the same.
  • Be consistent.
    A one-off gesture doesn’t build trust. Show up oftenand on purpose. That’s where the impact lives.

Your team doesn’t need a perfect leader. They need one who pays attention. Who acts with purpose and asks better questions — and backs them up with better actions.

Because that’s what meaningful investment looks like and feels like.